Have you ever thought of loving that soul who loves you unconditionally, you push it every day to the fullest, you let it think of your dreams, work on your schedule, let you have meals in the day and puts you down to sleep at last and be happy with you whole-heartedly when there is a moment of rejoice and cry all the heart when you are down. Query becomes, who is person and answer is YOU and it’s time to love yourself and have some me time around!!!
In everyday life, it is crucial to have some me-time to rejuvenate self. Living life for the loved ones is way important but it is equally important to love you as believed “A heart should self be happy in order to keep other hearts happy”. Not giving time to self and pleasing others is no where less than bondage and forcing to labor others. We hustle each day in making ourselves so perfect so that others can idealize us but don’t think for once that being confident in our skin can also make us unique in the whole wide world. The world is beautiful to be around everyone but the world inside us is surely nowhere far behind. As per science and theories of psychology and behavior it has been proved technically as well that the supreme need of life is contentment which comes from within. Being in a happy zone with the loved one is great, being with someone gives meaning to life but the existence of Life comes from loving self and being the way our wants us to be.
Me Time is the Right Time
To give time to one self is termed as “Me Time” and in the changing passage of time ‘Me Time’ has popularized as an activity what makes each feel inspired to take on instead of reaching to the level of depression due to self-arrest and stress. It doesn’t matter how long you give time to yourself the only thing that matters is to give time be it few minutes, an hour, few hours, a day or two or the whole weekend; the fact is that at some point of time we just need our share of “me time”. Me-time is the time to find us one good content book to dwell into deep down learning from writings, to flow in the breeze of air with some weekend getaways or soak the soul in the purest of music sessions listening songs, music or any inspirational talks. Wisdom comes out of knowledge and knowledge which is self-interpreted, understood and analyzed. The key to success as a wise persona comes out of spending some quality time with YOU.
You might have never realized but once you start spending time with yourself it leads to many options as it is the way to keep others happy as well. Sometime vacating any space makes room for new memories, new achievements, new wonders, new destination and even the new you or the real you who was shadowed. The time taken out for self help to SWOT as who you are and how is the worth by improvising the life in a much better manner with learning, taking time to fitness and leading through adversity and spiritualism. It is the time to open up the Pandora box which has multiple surprises like:
A 24x7 best friend
Self Improvisation medium
A boost to feel happier, feel younger
A medium to key the happier family life
Leading path to adversity
A fitness partner for goals – Health
Wonders under Construction
Once you start you simply start enjoying the time with you as you are able to enjoy life and there is no exterior coating you crave for. Now you sleep better and deeper as there is less stress, burden of expectations, less fatigue and oscillation of depression and anxiety with a greater resistance to toughened time-bounds. In an overall cumulative analysis, taking time for you improvise for being a better person who plays role of partner, parent, employee and business partner in perfection because his foundation is perfect in an idyllic interpersonal manner. The major wonder of loving you is the attainment of knowledge which leads to contentment that leads to wisdom and finally to the world of spirituality.
Push & Push Back…That’s All??
You plan it, you target it, you work on it, you give your all and you achieve but you are also exhausted; this challenge to have sky as the limit makes you mentally and physically tired and after regrouping, partying and celebrating you again pull the socks up to take on the next challenge. Stop being a machine as if there are button to push and push back to start and end as you are human; need to be the one. It is time to decide option one out of the two…what your heart says matters the most; listen what it says……is it independence or dependence, its freedom or bondage, its expectation or performance, its behold or move…is it joy of gratification or is it joy of materialism and the one to decide is YOU!!
Destination is Within
The road to win over stress and self-arrest leads you nowhere else but to the destination of self-realization and to start learning to expect out of yourselves and giving a chance to yourself in order to be happy. The best example to set for self is to be that example and it is possible to realize self worth only through cutting out a schedule and start spending quality time that is shared by none.
So, Aspire to be Inspire and Not Expire…………..Because you Deserve the Luxury to Love You!!!!